It was great to see my son again, this weekend. I have not seen him for a good few months. I know I am not a perfect dad material, actually I am, but I cannot afford him at the moment. He has two sweet mums to look after him, I have nothing to worried about.
Some of you might ask, what is this all about? A puff, has a son? No, Evan was not a mistake, he was planned, and we all love him very much. Well, I start to be a sperm donor about 2 years ago. I always want a child when I am not too old. It might be easy for you, but not for me. I knew Z was on this website that is called http://www.free-sperm-donations.com/ , he told me I can set up a profile and there will be couples to contact me, straight or gay, so I did. About a month after, T and L contacted me. They are Chinese (L) and German (T) lesbian couple, T was the one who want to carry the baby, so they will have a Chinese and German half cast baby and look-a-like them.
Anyway, I went to Belfast to see them all with Z. We arrived at early evening on Saturday. T picked us up at the airport. The day was very nice and dry, bright warm sunshine, you wouldn’t think that was the end of summer. Evan was in the car looking at me suspiciously. Last time he met me was half a year ago, he was only 2 months old. He probably didn’t remember me at all. Instead of greeting me, the second I got in the car and said hi to Evan, he started crying, no matter what I did, he just kept crying. It was very embarrassing to be honest, people around might think it was child abuse.
Finally we arrived at T & L’s place. Once Evan back to his throne, had his food, he was full of beans again. For a 7-month old baby, he can walk with help from us. In no time, he will walk around the place and wreck it.
We stayed in and caught up on things. I had 2 and a half bottle of wine, very insensible. The next morning I woke up with hanging headache, anything I drank from then I threw up straight away. It was the worst hang over ever. After an hour struggling in bed, Zoran gave me some painkillers and then emotional blackmail me that they were going to this food festival in the park. I have to say the blackmail worked beautifully. I suddenly had this momentum to get myself out the bed, went to the shower and got out the house.
It was a beautiful day, even tho I was still half pissed, I managed to have some food and had a good time with Evan and all. I was very nice to have an outing with the girls, my son and Zoran and we get on very well. I m sure Little Evan had a good time too, he giggle all the time when we were in the park. I can see he really wants to walk on his own, he never stop turning here and there when I was holding him.
After that, it was about time to go to the airport. I would love to stay a bit longer. Before we went, I gave T & L my calligraphy of Evan’s name in Chinese. They were delighted. I also leave a life casting kit at them, so next time, we can cast Evan’s baby foot and hand, that will be good fun.
Some of you might ask, what is this all about? A puff, has a son? No, Evan was not a mistake, he was planned, and we all love him very much. Well, I start to be a sperm donor about 2 years ago. I always want a child when I am not too old. It might be easy for you, but not for me. I knew Z was on this website that is called http://www.free-sperm-donations.com/ , he told me I can set up a profile and there will be couples to contact me, straight or gay, so I did. About a month after, T and L contacted me. They are Chinese (L) and German (T) lesbian couple, T was the one who want to carry the baby, so they will have a Chinese and German half cast baby and look-a-like them.
Anyway, I went to Belfast to see them all with Z. We arrived at early evening on Saturday. T picked us up at the airport. The day was very nice and dry, bright warm sunshine, you wouldn’t think that was the end of summer. Evan was in the car looking at me suspiciously. Last time he met me was half a year ago, he was only 2 months old. He probably didn’t remember me at all. Instead of greeting me, the second I got in the car and said hi to Evan, he started crying, no matter what I did, he just kept crying. It was very embarrassing to be honest, people around might think it was child abuse.
Finally we arrived at T & L’s place. Once Evan back to his throne, had his food, he was full of beans again. For a 7-month old baby, he can walk with help from us. In no time, he will walk around the place and wreck it.
We stayed in and caught up on things. I had 2 and a half bottle of wine, very insensible. The next morning I woke up with hanging headache, anything I drank from then I threw up straight away. It was the worst hang over ever. After an hour struggling in bed, Zoran gave me some painkillers and then emotional blackmail me that they were going to this food festival in the park. I have to say the blackmail worked beautifully. I suddenly had this momentum to get myself out the bed, went to the shower and got out the house.
It was a beautiful day, even tho I was still half pissed, I managed to have some food and had a good time with Evan and all. I was very nice to have an outing with the girls, my son and Zoran and we get on very well. I m sure Little Evan had a good time too, he giggle all the time when we were in the park. I can see he really wants to walk on his own, he never stop turning here and there when I was holding him.
After that, it was about time to go to the airport. I would love to stay a bit longer. Before we went, I gave T & L my calligraphy of Evan’s name in Chinese. They were delighted. I also leave a life casting kit at them, so next time, we can cast Evan’s baby foot and hand, that will be good fun.